7 Keys for Finding True Love and Happiness

Is it even possible to find true love and happiness? If so, what are we missing? Here are 7 keys for that will help you on your journey.

Hello lovely ladies! Let’s be real for a second – how many times have we asked ourselves if the fairy tale is actually real? Is it even possible to find that soul-shaking true love and genuine happiness, or is it just something we see in movies?

If you are feeling stuck or wondering what the missing piece of the puzzle is, take a deep breath babe. You are exactly where you need to be. Here are 7 keys that will help guide you on this beautiful journey called life.

1: Know your true value

Listen to me gorgeous, the greatest romance you will ever have is the one with yourself. This isn’t about blowing your paycheck on expensive treatments or acting stuck-up. It’s about feeling your worth in your bones and refusing to accept anything less than what a queen deserves.

The way we let people treat us is basically a mirror of how we treat ourselves. It becomes super obvious to the world how much self-love we’re actually carrying. Once you truly get it – once you know your worth – you’ll stop giving out discounts on your heart. You will start feeling whole and happy, even if you’re rocking the single life for now.

2: Live a life you love daily

The most amazing thing about this life? You get to choose how to live it, babe! It is so easy to get dragged down by the everyday routine, feeling like we are just stuck in a rut waiting for a miracle. But honestly, the only person standing in your way is you.

When you build a life you don’t need a vacation from, waking up becomes a joy. Small choices work together to create that dream reality. Why not start today?

Let’s Chat, Ladies!
What is one small thing you did today just for you? Drop a comment below – I’d love to hear how you are treating yourself!

3: Declutter and get organized

I’m a big believer that your outer world reflects your inner world. When your room is full of rubbish and chaos, its usually a sign that your mind is a bit messy too. By clearing out the old junk, you are energetically telling the universe you have space for the new!

Even if your heart feels all over the place, you can bring some peace to your soul by organizing your physical space. It’s crazy how much a clean home changes your mood. Get rid of the negative vibes and build a sanctuary that makes you feel peaceful and in control.

4: Write a list of what you want

Life and love are hard enough without wandering around blindfolded! Grab your journal (or your laptop) and get clear on what you want. Be honest and specific babe, this is your future we’re talking about.

Here are the lists I love to write to get my head straight:

• Yearly goals I want to crush
• A list of who I am and the magic I offer the world
• My wildest dreams and passions
• The kind of relationship I actually deserve
• The traits of the dream man I hope to marry!

Don’t hold back. Put this list somewhere you can see it every single day so you remember what you are fighting for.

5: Learn the difference between compromising and settling

Love shouldn’t feel like a consolation prize. You should never have to settle for second best. Sometimes, after a few heartbreaks or years of being single, we get tired and forget our value. But on the flip side, sometimes our walls are so high that we forget how to be flexible.

You have to know the difference, ladies. When you know your worth, you’ll find that sweet spot between having standards and being open to love.

6: Know when to chase, and when to wait

We live in such a fast pace society, dont we? We want everything *now*. It is hard to wait for the real deal when there are so many “okay” options right in front of us. But chasing men? That will get you nowhere fast.

Chasing your dreams, however? That fills you with purpose. We definitely need to put ourselves out there (we don’t want to end up alone with 42 cats!), but we also need to know where boundaries lie. Sometimes you have to put down the “good” to pick up the “great.” Trust the timing, lovely.

7: Nurture what you have

It is so important to appreciate the blessings already in your lap. Relationships take work – they need to be fed and watered to grow. Don’t neglect yourself, your health, or your partner.

Be conscious of the words you speak and the energy you bring. It’s not always easy, but the reward is so worth it! When we nurture what we have, we live with way more gratitude and joy.

We Want to Hear From You!

Which of these 7 keys resonated with you the most? Share your story or your struggles in the comments below – your experience might be exactly what another woman needs to hear today. Let’s support each other on this journey to love!

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